What’s your job description…
Still allowing the same wishywashy/indecisive/ boundary pushing/toxic/ dismissive avoidant/ noncommittal/narcissistic/ abusive person or persons waltz in and out of your life or make you relive the same old story over and over.
Still falling for their ‘but I love/care/I would never’ non verbal or verbal sentiment after doing some foul shit…repetitively.
Most times without even an apology.
Listen up…YOU are just as toxic as they are to allow this.
Not judging…I did it 9 times in 2.5 years and perhaps my entire life until I woke the fuck up to this type of bullshit.
Nowhere in your earthly job description does it say you have to teach full grown adults common decency fundamental behaviors or tolerate less than…but it is YOUR job to protect yourself from these juvenile delinquents.
People who have sincere genuine feelings towards you will not constantly test your boundaries…unless you yourself have wishywashy boundaries that can be easily broken…and allow this!
If you allow this…they will push it…such is the nature of the toxic beast.
