Living My New Reality
Know thyself...Narcissists are drawn to you for your good qualities...but like 'healthy' partners would... they do not value and nurture those qualities in you.They try to destroy it because they don't have it...they covet it...they are jealous of it.A jealous partner or friend is a dangerous person. We expect our partners to have our best interest at heart...because WE do.Not
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Your smile is YOURS...I remember telling the Psychopath...you took away my smile!He gleefully smiled and shrugged his shoulders which was his own pat on the back for his cruelty. MISSION ACCOMPLISHED.Next...time...next week...next person. A shoulder shrug is a nonverbal gesture where one is indicating indifference "I don't care".These are emotional vampires...they suck the life out of people...and then dismiss your
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Graveyard...shift.Staying longer that I should have.I knew in the first month something was very wrong. We had broken up for the 5th 6th or 7th or 8th times in 2.5 years. Usually survivors do 7 cycles of abuse with a narcissist...Overachiever here...Love bombing, devaluation, discard...rinse repeat.I did 8...almost 9.9 was my lucky number.He tried #9 after he tried to get
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Memorabilia are a Psychopaths best friend....By definition...Predators that save memorabilia from their victims are primarily serial sexual offenders and sadistic killers, who use these items as "souvenirs" or "trophies" to relive their crimes and reinforce a sense of power or invincibility.Who takes 1000s and 1000s and 1000s of pictures and videos of what is clearly evident of child pornography and
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Your view through a kaleidoscope...People know exactly what they are doing when they are doing it...unless they have an intellectual disability(old school...retarded)Especially abusive people because they have done this before...many times.You are not THAT special...you didn't 'make' someone abusive...although they would like for you to think that.Abusers do what works for THEM... PERIOD! And they will repeat what 'works' for
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Same shit...different target...How narcissists leave a relationship...The same way they entered one...by using a third party to facilitate the end.They have already found another 'plus one' before they abandon this 'relationship'...or will recycle an ex...THAT'S a requirement because that move packs an anticipated humiliation punch to you if you are immediately replaced..they also cannot be alone for long without constant
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Can you even imagine....Over 8.5 billion people are ALL laughing at this Clown-in-Chief.Imagine a world population of over 8.5 billion COLLECTIVELY thinking this fucking deranged lunatic is the most idiotic person to have EVER lived on planet Earth...Imagine over 8.5 billion people waiting to see an obituary every morning...Imagine that!!!His broken fragile ego craved to be the 'best' at something...ANYTHING!He
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My own 2 cents about accountability and belief in a higher power. If we don't believe there is a Higher Power guiding us and keeping us on a moral path where there are consequences...we are more likely to go through life thinking there is no accountability or repercussions for our behaviors.(Not ALWAYS...some people may have a very strong moral compass
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YOU…..Irony for a person who has survived narcissistically abusive entanglements…The survivor goes through life looking for people who DO NOT exhibit ANY of the Narcissist's qualities…and the Narcissist goes through life looking for someone exactly like YOU.Don't be flattered…there have been many you's.The reason…They are looking for someone to mirror back to them all your wonderful qualities they lack.They are
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Willful blindness.... A narcissist's biggest fear...***Public exposure and humiliation***They spend their whole life so worried about how their façade looks from the outside that they have to constantly carefully manicure it.They be like shit on their insides and indoors...but need EVERYONE to believe their fake public façade. We ALL are concerned about what other people think of us THAT'S what
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