The best part of getting rid of a toxic relationship…
You will realize you are left with NOTHING substantial to miss from that entanglement.
There were plenty of good memories…sure…but the bad experiences outweighed the good ones and negated them.
ALL relationships have pros and cons…because you both bring that in with you.
When the cons outweigh the pros…that’s when it becomes no bueno…THAT’S toxic…for both.
And worse still…you both sat in that toxic place…in hope…that it would ALL fix itself…with no effort from either parties…
And then going back and repeating what you just did…
Insanity….
If NOTHING else was achieved from this entanglement…
I hope you realize how insane that was…doing NOTHING about changing things but just hoping and wishing.
Just hoping and wishing has never EVER helped ANYONE solve ANYTHING.
The good news…
Once you process all the trauma that was caused…there’s nothing left to miss.
Sadly….’awful’ always trumps out ‘pleasant’ memories…
we have to put in a lot of effort to reverse that…if at all possible.
You are left with some awful memories…you can do what you want with that…
I write…
I share those experiences…
All you now feel is relief and peace.
Your peace and feelings of relief is your sweet Justice ⚖️
Thats how that works…
That’s how that ends…
That’s what you are left with.
