If you put people through the same trauma you have experienced…it means you have not healed yourself from your past experiences.
For example…if your wife cheats on you…unhealed version of you will cheat on your next partner.
If you cheat on your partner…you will most likely be cheated on.
You get what you give and you give what you get…when unhealed and unaware.
Think about that one…
Always remember…In order to stay with a toxic person…your own toxicity will come out to play too.
The toxic defense mechanism in YOU accommodates the toxic shit they are serving you…so don’t think you are off the hook.
Karma will keep you in a continuous loop of poop…until you wise up.