Priorities….
People will show you exactly what/who is important to them and what/who they are willing to make time for.
**People will ALWAYS make time for what is important to them in their lives***
DON’T make excuses/deny/disregard or ignore those decisions.
THAT is a very clear indication of how you stack up on their totem pole of priorities.
How people prioritize you is a good gauge of where you stand in their life and vice versa.
The same goes for your own priorities.
How far down the totem pole of priorities are you willing to slide to?
How low are you willing to go?
After their social agenda, family, job, church, sports obsession, hobbies, extra curriculars, girlfriends, boyfriends…
After an obsessive ex, Or 2 or 3 or 20…after Tuesday Trash day?
Think long and hard…because inconsiderate, selfish, self absorbed people will prioritize you as far down that pole that you ‘allow’ them to.
Those are also the same people who will be totally offended when you push them down your own priority pole.
If you agree to receiving breadcrumbs from them they will gladly hand you breadcrumbs.
How low can you go…
It shouldn’t take another relationship after you to find out that YOU were the better option.
You should not become someone’s pin cushion to test out if they are still capable of poking.
It should not take someone going back to an ex 20 times to see if it still works and then when it doesn’t work out…again…come back to you in between because they are desperate to poke someone…ANYONE!
***You are NOT someone’s Bronze medal***
You are more valuable than that…
Maintain your integrity and self respect in yourself.
***YOUR integrity is non negotiatable***
YOU are special and should be treated as such…
How did your ex coming back around for the 20th time to use you become your ONLY bottom of the barrel viable option 🤔🙄
Carefully prioritize who you are willing to make a priority in YOUR own life.
Not ALL are worthy to be on that pole with you.
YOU should be on the top tier of your own pole.
YOU should be your own main priority.
Prioritize yourself…first…and the rest will follow.
