People will show you exactly what/who is important to them and what/who they are willing to make time for.
People will ALWAYS make time for what is important to themselves.
DON’T make excuses, deny, disregard or ignore those decisions.
THAT is a very clear indication of how you stack up on their totem pole of priorities.
How people prioritize you is a good gauge of where you stand in their life and vice versa.
The same goes for your own priorities.
How far down the totem pole of priorities are you willing to slide to?
How low are you willing you go?
After their social agenda?
After their family, job, church, sports obsession, hobbies, extra curriculars?
After an obsessive ex? Or 2 or 3?
After Tuesday Trash day?
Think long and hard…because inconsiderate, selfish, self absorbed people will prioritize you as far down that pole that you ‘allow’ them to.
Those are also the same people who will be totally offended when you push them down your own priority pole.
If you agree to receiving breadcrumbs from them they will gladly hand you breadcrumbs.
Remember you cannot make a succulent delicious cake out of dry breadcrumbs.
Carefully prioritize who you are willing to make a priority in YOUR own life.
Not all are worthy to be on that pole with you.
YOU should be on the top of your own pole.
YOU should be your own main priority.
Prioritize yourself…first…and the rest will follow.
