Male or female…
People who play around with people’s hearts and lives…don’t do it because they are ‘something’ special…they do it because of very deep insecurities within themselves.
Insecurities that they might not even know exists…because it is serving a purpose.
Such people use looks, charm, money, power, comedy etc in lieu of real character traits like loyalty, dependability, commitment, honestly, integrity etc.
Who wants a full time clown!
Initially that works…but in the long run…it doesn’t.
They hide their insecurities behind a false façade of ‘perfection’.
No one can maintain a false façade for long…so when that becomes a strain…before the façade cracks…they move on.
Some are self proclaimed players…the over arrogant ones…some will do it on the down low…the hypocrites.
Both are a dangerous variety of humans…because their veil of deception is very shallow.
They only have shallow qualities to fall back on.
They may have some good qualities that you may see but their insecurities are so deep they are not even sure of those ‘good’ qualities themselves…they themselves don’t think those qualities will sustain their fake façade.
It really might be quite adequate to build on but they don’t recognize or believe that themselves.
Impressed by Players…sure…for about a split second till you realize there’s nothing else there.
