Passion or Lust is a powerful emotion….one of the strongest emotions we can experience.
It’s a Primal emotion.
Having Passion for someone is not always a positive thing.
Passion can actually be quite selfish and destructive…unless it is accompanied with love and respect.
Passion without love and respect…dies…quickly.
People who confuse passion for love…go from one person to another trying to recreate what they think ‘love’ is.
All they create is a path of unfulfilled, incomplete situations…for themselves and others.
People who cannot tell the difference between passion and love it’s usually because they did not have a proper role model for love as children.
They are not able to reflect love to others because they have not experienced it themselves.
You can not give to others what you do not have.
Their first experience of ‘love’ was attached to their first sexual experience…and this is replicated throughout their life.
They feel unfulfilled if they do not feel lust for some one…this is how they judge and manage partnerships.
At the first sign of ‘attachment’ they will leave the relationship because they cannot identify or relate to ‘attachment’ for love…they cannot identify with any other emotion…but passion…so they go on to hunt for passion some where else.
They believe if they lose passion…the partnership is over.
They toggle in and out of partnerships to keep this addiction alive.
There are always multiples involved to keep up with their addiction to lust.
They are incapable of comprehending that passion requires effort and can be maintained…with love and respect.
Unfortunately, unless you identify this pattern and take steps to change it…it can consume your entire life…and lead to very unfulfilling partnerships and existence.
Acknowledging that there is a problem and that it is an internal problem…that only YOU can correct…is the first step in the right direction.
NOTHING changes until you change yourself.
Passion accompanied with love and respect is a beautiful thing.