Living My New Reality

My First Blog!

Hello!
This is my first blog😊
I am super excited 😃

5 years ago after my divorce I got myself into an abusive relationship that would transform my life.
What started out as a painful burden in my life has turned into something I am grateful for.
The experience is still painful…but I now understand why it had to happen…and how this happened for my own good.

Why I started writing….
It was a strange phenomenon that came out of necessity about 3 years ago. I needed an outlet to vent this traumatic experience ….so I started doing research on the kind of relationship I had gotten entangled in and started writing on Support forums.
What started out as painful venting for me turned into something quite different over time.
I now have a lot of clarity of how I drew this type of dynamic into my life, my part in it and its purpose in my life.
I don’t have all the answers…but I have what I need.

My research and writing has helped me transmute my pain into fuel.
What I write about resonates with everyone in one way or another….my story is your story.

The pain triggered my writing and here I am….writing a blog.

I hope you will find some value in my perspectives…and even if you don’t I still value your encouragement.

Much love to all ♥️♥️♥️

Your feedback is appreciated.

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19 thoughts on “My First Blog!”

  1. My story is your story.. Yes, we are all connected by our experiences. Your blog indicates that you have traveled a rough road & learned from it. Am excited to know more about your journey. Congratulations on your first post & hoping that you will reach out to those who can benefit from your ordeal.

    1. Thank you for your comment Priscilla.
      You and me have lived parallel lives…the same life events with different time lines.
      Just goes to show we are all connected in some way.
      The people in our lives are just a mirror of ourselves..if we pay close enough attention it will give us an opportunity to learn and grow.
      Love you my friend xoxox

  2. Succinct and authentically expressed. So glad you took the next step in sharing the wealth of your experiences through this forum and thereby helping other people in abusive relationships. I applaud your courage. Wishing you much success in your writing.

    1. Thank you Karen for the encouragement. I appreciate it.
      The writing is the easy part… getting familiar with the blog world is another story 😄 😘

  3. Well done Paula. Look forward to reading more. You have a real flair for writing & expressing yourself. It’s great that you have the courage to share such personal &difficult experiences.

  4. Congratulations on your first post . Please share your ordeal so as to help others who face the same. Keep writing .

  5. So well articulated. We all learn from each other. In hindsight our journeys seem rough but while we are going thru them we don’t realize it as much. Your sharing will help others also to come forth. And having someone to listen to is the best therapy. I wish you loads of happiness. Keep the spirits soaring….

  6. Congratulations on your first post. It takes immense courage to talk about painful experiences. Keep strong and keep writing, so your writing can help others in similar situations. God bless.

  7. I do really admire your spirit i which it seems provoked the talent of writing in you ,good luck I love what you r doing.

  8. I want to congratulate you on your positive approach and courage. The simple fact that you are writing your first post means the attainment of your ultimate objective. Sharing your experiences along your journey in life indicates that you want to live a worthy and much more fulfilling life as compared to the past events. Remember, Success does not mean the absence of failures. Wish you Success. You are a Winner! 🤗

    1. Thank you Sylvester for the encouragement.
      Success does not mean the absence of failures….. I love that!!
      You are right…I already feel like a Winner regardless of the outcome of my new venture.
      I had to jump through hurdles and cross the finish line to get to be able to do what I’m doing right now…anything past that is icing on my Cake 😊😘

      1. It is true… People who have overcome obstacles are more secure than those who have never faced them.🌹
        You are one of the Successful people who does small things but in a great way.
        I am glad to see you start anew and that You have your own Fan Club. 😊
        Silvestre 👏

  9. Paula you’re doing a great service to scarred women and men across the world who wish someone knowledgeable could advise them but can’t afford professional counseling. God bless you.

    1. Thank you Cathy….those are big shoes to fill…but I will take the blessings xoxoxox

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