Don’t discredit the importance of the Narcissists of this world…
They are here to demonstrate to us a realistic view of what people can really be like.
Most of us are roaming around this world wearing rose colored glasses…we have an unrealistic naive view of how this world really operates…
We ALL come across them but cannot recognize them…because they ONLY target a particular kind of person.
We ALL have a particular assignment on Earth…
Narcissists too have been assigned an agenda…
They just go from one ‘unrealistic’ person to the next to destroy their innocent view of the world…
That’s how they roam around in this world…as predators.
They are similar to the earthworms of this world…
Earthworms are a required ingredient in this experiment of life that we are part of…
Earthworms help bring oxygen to the soil…
Narcissists suck the oxygen out of you…
Both make you reach out for air…to survive!
There’s a positive and a negative perspective to this experience…
The positive is that we needed to wake up to the importance of earthworms…
And the negative is it will happen in a very harsh manner…like slapping a baby awake…it’s startling and leaves a lasting impression…because it’s so very jarring.
They will show you exactly what a relationship is not supposed to be like…
Take notes…
The minute the rose colored glasses were slapped off my face…I started seeing people exactly as they were showing me they are and not what and who I dreamed up, imagined or wished or hoped or prayed for them to be…
The energetic imprint of this person was so similar to my caregivers and subsequent past relationships…I felt comfortable enough to stay put in total discomfort.
It felt so very familiar because I had done this before…
I thought I had hit pay dirt of relationships…
It was dirt alright…
Familiar dirt…
Familiar for me is a redflag 🚩
Why was I crawling in the dirt with earthworms…
This wasn’t my first rodeo…except I was not aware that I was at the rodeo.
I was forced into isolation…to think…perhaps clearly for the first time in my life.
You are forced to see the truth singularly through the process of elimination and the power of discernment.
You will have no choice but to listen to your intuition…that you have been trying to silence all these years by other people’s ‘noise’ on your brain.
What sort of people was I canoodling with and why!
Thanks to the infamous narcissistic experience I had the displeasure of bumping into in this lifetime…I have no rose colored glasses to distort or blur my vision any longer.
And THAT is a frighteningly bright place to be…
Until you adjust to the light…and focus on what’s actually really REAL around you…and not what you have conjured up in your own mind.
My own beautiful rose colored glasses were concealing the thorns…to protect me.
Isn’t that ironic!
And what’s more ironic…
My glasses now are really rose colored 😍 🤭🫶😉
