I met a very ‘interesting’ person…on my trip…well he thought he was interesting.
I did not…
I find EVERYONE informative.
He was in a group of men…a fraternity of 5 from somewhere.
I met them on my last day there.
As I was walking to the beach…he had to say something…
It was a cute exchange…
Just flirtatious…
Later on I met them at breakfast…
Of course he engaged…
Then came over to sit with me.
He was very flirtatious…
I saw the wedding ring on his finger that he had hiding between his thighs.
We talked…his friends were all married so behaved as such.
He did not…he kept asking me if I would be his date for the evening…
We talked small talk and silly banter…
I asked him if he had kids…
He said he had older kids…then
he said he has a 4 year old…he showed me her picture…immediately.
I said you have a wedding ring on…show me your wife’s picture…to remind him he is married…because that’s easily forgotten when its hidden between your thighs…he did…after hunting for it on his phone for like 3 minutes.
He is 57 his wife is @25 years younger.
They got married last year.
Then came the regurgitation of information…unprompted…like a confession 😜
I am a serial monogamist…I go from person to person because I don’t want to commit…I just don’t want to be alone or be without sex…because that’s just not comprehensible to me to be without sex for any given period of time.
He vomited so much of who he was in a period of 10 minutes.
I let him vomit…
He kept saying to me will you be my date tonight…
I said…no…need.
His friends laughed at him because they apparently know him.
I’m going to guess he has Googled what a serial monogamist is supposed to be and uses it as a crutch…to rationalize his cheating to himself and others.
And so do I…know the meaning…that is.
He has found a clever ‘niche’ to hang on to…to impress.
When in actuality…
They are just serial cheaters…
By definition…
What is serial monogamy?
A serial monogamist is a person who moves from one romantic relationship to another very quickly, spending as little time single as possible. Some serial monogamists might have short-lived relationships, while others might have long-term relationships.
He is not that…he is just an opportunist…who uses a fancy term that has the word ‘monogamist’ in it to throw you off.
He will do what anyone else will allow him to do…at any given moment.
We all do that to a certain extent…try to rationalize our behaviors…don’t we?
That has worked for Lynnwood before…otherwise he wouldn’t try it again.
