Emotionally abusive people have a hat full of tricks…tried and true tricks…they use them repetitively and often…because they work.
‘Let’s be friends’…It’s part of their abusive arsenal…another cruel trick.
If you agree…they will then use you on an as needed basis.
You may think they are giving the situationshit another try…they are absolutely NOT.
It’s just a trap…an abuse death trap.
You have just agreed to them using you when they want to and abusing you when they want to.
You will discover you are on a merry-go-round with other unaware exes and other random candidates they pick up along the way.
THAT creates a sense of competition…it’s a BIG stroke to their fragile broken Ego…it’s their life line…it’s how they survive.
The Narcissistic Merry-go-round.
They keep the situationshit in first gear and reverse.
If you are non-compliant…you are pushed off the horse and replaced by another…and the Merry-go-round continues…just as a reminder to you…you are dispensable, unimportant and unnecessary…till he comes back around for you again.
It stops when you figure out their cruel game and YOU put an end to that one way rollercoaster ride to Hell.
They won’t…because YOU being part of that merry-go-round is beneficial to them.
Spin cycle of Narcissistic Hell.
In addition to their many dysfunctional tendencies…Narcissistic people are not generous by definition…except when there’s something in it for themselves.
When people are stingy with their money they are also stingy with their time, emotions etc.
Generosity is an ALL or NOTHING kind of trait.
Would you really want to even be ‘just’ friends with such a person?
‘Let’s be friends’ is a permission slip you sign off on with a Narcissist to use and abuse you without being held responsible or accountable for their bad behaviors.
Think again!!!
