Jealousy…
By definition….
A feeling of unhappiness caused by wanting what someone else has.
Jealousy is a very dangerous ingredient when introduced into a relationship.
A jealous energy will ALWAYS cause you harm…eventually…if you choose to ignore this red flag.
It can be very conscious or very subconscious.
Why…because they want something you have…and if they can’t get it they will try to destroy it for you.
There are different types of jealousy.
It is also a very human reaction.
Partners can provoke jealousy by introducing a third party into the dynamic…it creates a sense of competition and a false sense of desirability and the thrill of being chased for them.
It also puts the partner in a tale spin of unnecessary competition and confusion and at a forced submissive position by manipulation.
Platonic friends can also do the same just to feel more ‘popular’.
Family members can also do the same by triangulating other family members.
It’s a ‘fun’ game toxic people play at the expense of others…to gain attention and popularity.
A jealous energy is also a greedy energy…they want it ALL and don’t care how they get it.
Within relationships it is very destructive…toxic people will make you doubt your self worth and self esteem by making themselves as a much desired ‘prize’.
With platonic friends they will openly ignore you or belittle you within a group to create a sense of competition.
Family members also do the same to create a sense of superiority and control.
You can have feelings of ‘love’ for someone and also be jealous of EVERYTHING about them….that is not actually ‘real’ love…that is a toxic attachment…you are attached to this person for another reason…and you are mistaking it for love…it maybe sex, money, convenience, proximity etc.
Your attachment is based on some benefit you are attaining from them.
Jealousy is a form of hatred…very different from real love where you care about the complete well-being of the other person…mind, body and soul.
Jealous energies are very insecure people who have to play dysfunctional toxic games to achieve their end.
Although very difficult and painful… don’t take it personally…these types of people are jealous about EVERYTHING and EVERYONE.
Always remember…
People behave how people ALWAYS behave…you are not going to be the exception to their rule.
The fact remains though…the longer you stay around the more likely you will experience their hate.
THAT’S the simple truth!
