People who rush into relationships and get enamored too quickly create a false sense of trust within themselves and you.
Don’t get too excited or feel flattered…it’s not YOU…that’s how they ALWAYS operate.
Getting intimate quickly creates a false sense of trust.
It is a false premise…an illusion…or more appropriately a disillusion.
Trust can ONLY be developed over time and getting to know another.
Most of us operate in that way… unknowingly…instinctively…it’s subconscious.
Touch/sex releases oxytocin a trust/love hormone…like the feeling a baby gets from it’s mother…trust.
It is an inherent need in us to pursue that feeling.
Oxytocin is a feel good hormone in addition to seratonin and dopamine.
Oxytocin, the love hormone, promotes bonding in both romantic and platonic relationships. It’s essential for bringing new people into the world, and also for forging essential parent-child bonds.
People who rush into relationships and fall ‘in love’ quickly have an innate need to feel that high.
They get disenchanted just as quickly…because when there is a high there is always a crashing low.
Who doesn’t want to feel ‘high’…as long as you are prepared for that crashing low.
How high is high…
Is it worth it…
If you can identify and acknowledge this behavior you can change it.
