By definition…
A Hero is a person who is admired or idealized for courage, outstanding achievements, or noble qualities.
Trying to rescue people from themselves is not a noble quality or task.
Rescuing people is a toxic trait.
ANYTHING and EVERYTHING we do is mostly self motivated…it makes us feel good helping others…thats why we do it…thats all well and good until we do it to our own detriment.
Then it’s enabling or codependency.
That’s like saying…how about I put my life on hold and concentrate on yours…
That’s gonna be a full time job.
You can’t make me do shit but you can sure as hell ruin your life trying.
You can’t stop an alcoholic from drinking…
You can’t make someone stop being a crackhead…
You can’t stop a liar from lying…
You can’t stop a person from doing ANYTHING until they want to.
We ALL need to rescue our own selves.
People who are looking for others to rescue them from themselves will just drag you down under too.
We don’t need rescuers in this life…
We need Heros…We need to be our own hero first…then both need to be each other’s hero and biggest fan and supporter…
That’s what a relationship needs…2 Heros.
