Theirs versus Yours….
Emotionally abusive people have a hat full of abuse tactics in their arsenal like love bombing, devaluing, discarding, gaslighting, demeaning, lying, cheating, triangulation, word chutney etc to manipulate and confuse the shit out of you…until you are emotionally spinning out of control.
THAT’S their mission…it makes it much easier for them to continue to abuse someone who is already in the spin cycle of Narcissistic Hell.
They are lazy…the least possible effort to achieve their end goal is their main objective.
They find it easier to manipulate people to get a desired result rather than to put in effort for a successful experience.
By the time you are done with them you too will have a hat full of tactics to add to your repertoire and arsenal…but yours will be useful knowledge that you need to draw from to protect yourself from people like that.
You will have selflove…awareness…boundaries…you will learn to listen to your intuition…you will learn to use your discernment to identify these con artists.
This is the not the first time nor the last time you will get to experience a difficult situation.
The trick is to be able to now implement all you have learned into your daily life.
You can’t learn to build a bridge but never actually build a bridge to know that you can build a bridge.
Now YOU have your own hat full of good useful tricks.
You are now well equipped to handle life with more courage and wisdom and you are more well prepared to speak up for yourself when necessary and to protect yourself from these types of criminalistic characters.
It is very difficult to deviate from your own life-long patterns that got you in these types of situations to begin with…that too takes effort…a lot of effort to implement those hard earned lessons into your life going forward.
Learn well…use it well…it was a rough ride…a tough journey.
ALL this happened FOR you not TO you.
Knowing THAT makes ALL the difference!
