From a distance….
Dealing with a Narcissist is like being on a bipolar roller-coaster ride.
Up and down, in and out, back and forth, to and fro…
Sometimes, it’s like dealing with unpredictable inclement weather…hot and cold, freeze and defrost…or lots of blowing of hot air…like a tornado.
Sometimes, it’s like a wishy washy laundry spin cycle…tumble dry…banging your head in the dryer…like gym shoes.
Until you get dizzy and fall off…or freeze off…or fabreeze off…or fuck off.
The BIG four Fs😉🥴🤪
Falling off that ride is the best case scenario that can happen FOR you.
Narcissists actually believe that no matter how badly they treat you…you will be back!
Do you know why that is…
Because you did just THAT!
Many many times…
Am I right or am I right…
Statistically most emotional abuse survivors participate in this type of dynamic for at least 7 cycles until they fall and crack their head open…or at the very minimum get the worst case of whiplash…from being jerked around so much…by a jerk.
Also remember…they always have a revolving door left open for ex-traffic.
Sign up for that shit show and you will be part of the revolving-ex-door-traffic-circus 🎪💩🐒🐒🐒
***Narcissist or not…you train people how to treat you***
If you show up back around multiple times…their bad behaviors multiply.
To be effective they have to ramp it up a notch…that’s the nature of that abusive beast…the longer you accomodate their bad behaviors the more they multiply.
They have ONLY one thing in mind…and it’s not YOU or your well-being.
It’s protecting their big fat broken EGO…at any cost.
Some of us may like bacon…but bacon is bad for you…it’s gonna kill you…eventually…so you cannot have a ‘regular’ relationship with bacon.
THAT is the same net bacon result with ANY narcissist in your life…intimate, familial or platonic…
There’s no way around that dynamic both with piggy and with narcissist…
Except…from a distance…
Keep your self safe, healthy and at a distance.
