An interaction with a narcissist is like an episode of ‘Catfish’.
NOTHING of what they show you is real…except the emotional abuse.
THAT’S real!!!
And that too they will deny.
The longer you stay with them…the more you will deny the abuse yourself.
You are confused between your reality and what they ‘tell’ you…that’s called cognitive dissonance…two opposing ‘realities’.
That’s the whole premise of their dysfunction…they keep you spinning out of control with their mind games.
Once you catch on…they are gone!!!
Game Over…on to the production of the next episode of Catfish for them.
Although very hurtful…try to not take this personally…remember…this has NOTHING to do with you and EVERYTHING to do with how they ‘need’ to feel within themselves.
They don’t give 2 fucks about you or the next target.
You are only a pawn in their game of Catfish.