Priorities and Self awareness…
Emotionally abusive people lack self awareness.
They do things in the way that they do them because it works for them.
Your comfort or your well-being is not on their list of priorities.
Trying to explain things to them or waiting for them to realize they are hurting you by the way they operate or treat you…is redundant.
They DON’T care!
They do what works for them!
Understand THAT!
They are not going to wake up one morning swimming in an Aha moment.
They have spent their whole lives perfecting their techniques…they are not going to change because of YOUR discomfort.
Change makes them squirm… specially if THEY are the ones who need to change.
But you can…because you HAVE to.
Making accommodations for Emotionally abusive people at your own personal detriment is a toxic coping mechanism on your part.
Become aware of this behavior!
Take an example from them and make YOU your priority.
But you will do it without using another human as your emotional whipping post.
THAT’S the difference between you and an emotional abuser…
You do not need to use another person to make your life tolerable.
Put your own comfort and well-being on the top of your own list of priorities.
Learn to be more aware of what is going on within yourself and around you.
A dirty player is a dirty player…
Learn to call a Spade a Spade…without self denial.
When you learn that…you will have a Royal Flush in your hand.
A Royal Flush is an unbeatable hand.
