The good experiences are just that…good experiences…they become our reference guides to identify future good experiences.
If you had good role models in your childhood you have a reference to what is a good experience.
Unfortunately if you had no good role models in your childhood…you are flying blind with only bad experiences to use as references to guide you.
A predator can sense this…when your defense mechanism have been disabled in your childhood by your caregivers.
They look for this in their targets to burrow a hole in…to suck the life out of you.
This is the entry wound they use to abuse your vulnerabilities.
Even predators play a useful role in our experiences.
We ALL teach each other as we go along our journey…
We would never appreciate the good if we haven’t experienced the bad…and we would never appreciate peace if we haven’t experienced chaos.
It’s the rough experiences that teach us our best lessons…they too become our reference guides of what or who NOT to do going forward✌️
