A very important concept to try to live by…one that can eliminate a lot of mental anguish through our life.
*Not EVERYONE is going to be your ‘friend’ or even ‘like’ you*
It is NOT a requirement…..
There is a spectrum for friendships or relationships.
1. Heart and Soul.
(Could be family or whoever is your foundation)
2. I love you…just because. (Significant others or pets…interchangeably)
3. I love hanging around with you… occasionally.
(The grey area)
4. Total indifference to whether you exist or not .
We hope to live in the first 2 categories…and aspire never to get to the 4th.
Most of our existence is in that middle grey area.
People get upgraded or downgraded throughout this process.
Some come around just to give you indigestion and are passed out like gas…they too are VERY important…they teach you what NOT to ingest.
Best strategy…look for people who speak to your soul…and hang on to them for dear life…make them your foundation.
Heart and Soul is your foundation.
The rest is just a mish mash of revolving expendable people.
